Many of us go through life making choices, big and small, that we often feel are expected of us. How we should live. What we should do. Who we should be.

A few years ago, I had a moment of clarity where I saw I had gone so far off track that I didn’t recognise myself in my own life any more. It was the most heart-breaking yet enlightening moment, and one that offered me a simple but difficult choice:

Keep on keeping on. And survive.

Or

Move through. Sacrifice. Hurt. Trust. Heal. And thrive.

I’ve spent the years since that ‘moment’ working through every area of my life to reconnect with who I really am, so that I may live a life that is truly mine.

This blog is for anyone who is questioning their choices and who they made them for. For those feeling very far off course and yearning for their truest life. For anyone starting over and scared it’s too late.

And to those who, when the noise fades, feel that uneasy sense of restlessness in the pit of their stomach. The feeling that both excites and terrifies – the one they wish would go away. Most of all, this is for you.